A West Midlands father diagnosed with stage 3 bowel cancer has issued a heartfelt plea to the public, urging them not to ignore potential symptoms. The 45-year-old, who wishes to remain anonymous, said: 'We only have one chance in life. If something doesn't feel right, get it checked.' His message comes as figures show bowel cancer is the fourth most common cancer in the UK, with around 42,000 people diagnosed each year.
Diagnosis and symptoms
The dad-of-two initially dismissed his symptoms, including blood in his stool and persistent abdominal pain, attributing them to stress or diet. After several months, he visited his GP and was referred for tests. A colonoscopy revealed a tumour, and scans confirmed the cancer had spread to lymph nodes. He underwent surgery and chemotherapy, and is now in remission. 'I was lucky they caught it in time, but many aren't,' he said.
Campaign for awareness
Bowel Cancer UK reports that over 90% of cases are diagnosed in people over 50, but cases in younger adults are rising. The charity's chief executive, Genevieve Edwards, said: 'Symptoms like bleeding, changes in bowel habit, or pain should never be ignored, regardless of age. Early diagnosis saves lives.' The father now supports local awareness campaigns, sharing his story at community events and on social media.
Impact on family
His wife described the diagnosis as 'devastating' and said the family had to adjust to a new normal. 'We had to explain to our children that daddy was poorly, but also that there was hope,' she said. The couple now advocates for better access to screening, especially for those under 50. In the West Midlands, screening is offered to those aged 60 to 74, but the father believes lowering the age could prevent many deaths.
Call to action
The father's message is clear: 'Don't be embarrassed. Don't put it off. See your doctor. It could save your life.' He encourages everyone to know the signs and to use home testing kits if eligible. Bowel Cancer UK provides free resources and support for those affected.
