Nationwide Building Society has issued a stark warning, highlighting a significant preparedness gap among middle-aged and older men when it comes to providing care for loved ones with dementia.
The Stark Generational Divide in Care Readiness
New research commissioned by Nationwide in partnership with Dementia UK reveals a concerning trend. It shows that only 32% of men aged 45-54 feel prepared to provide dementia care. This figure drops even further to just 30% for men aged 55 and over. This stands in sharp contrast to younger generations, where a much more confident 60% of men aged 18-34 report feeling prepared for such a responsibility.
The study also examined comfort levels in actually delivering care. A mere 37% of men aged 55-plus would feel comfortable providing dementia care, with this rising only slightly to 44% for men aged 45-54. The primary barriers preventing men from seeking support include difficulties in sharing their feelings, a fear of becoming a burden, and feelings of embarrassment.
The 'Sandwich Care' Squeeze and Prevalent Stigma
Dementia UK experts point out that middle age can be an exceptionally challenging time to take on a dementia caring role. Many individuals in this group are already juggling the demands of young children alongside financial pressures like mortgages, a situation often termed 'sandwich care'.
Steven Bozic, a Clinics Admiral Nurse at Dementia UK, commented on the findings. "Our clinic programme, in partnership with Nationwide Building Society, has enabled us to reach thousands of people across the country who need the support of a dementia specialist Admiral Nurse," he said. "But we know many struggle to reach out to access this vital support, particularly men where stigma and fear of judgement is prevalent."
He emphasised the dual strain, noting: "People in middle age are more likely to face challenges around taking on a caring role for someone with dementia as they have additional responsibilities. Balancing dual care roles can be challenging and tiring."
Urgent Call to Action for Support
Both organisations are now urging anyone impacted by dementia, whether directly or as a carer, to proactively seek help. Charlotte Kensett, Director of Social Impact and Customer Experience for Nationwide, stated: "At Nationwide, we want to make sure no one faces dementia alone. We’re encouraging anyone affected by dementia, whether you’re worried about a loved one or stepping into a caring role yourself to reach out for support."
Specialist support is available through Admiral Nurses, who are dementia specialists. Clinics are hosted in select Nationwide branches, and support is also accessible via the Dementia UK helpline on 0800 888 6678.
Steven Bozic concluded with a vital message for carers: "Caring for someone living with dementia can be exhausting, so it’s important to lean on support networks and to look after your health and wellbeing. No one should have to face dementia alone."
