For one Bridgend man, a life dedicated to service has taken a remarkable path, transitioning from a lengthy military career to providing compassionate support to families facing loss. Ian Rees, a funeral director with Co-op Funeralcare in Bridgend, proves that few careers follow a straight line, and that the skills honed in one field can find profound purpose in another.
From Peacekeeping to Personal Support: A Career Crossroads
After completing a substantial 22-year career in the British Army with the renowned 1st Queen’s Dragoon Guards, Ian faced a significant decision about his future. His time in the forces, including tours in Bosnia and Kosovo on peace implementation missions, involved providing crucial humanitarian aid. It was this experience that revealed his innate strength as a 'people person' and ignited a desire to continue helping others in a meaningful capacity.
"I had two main routes in mind after leaving the Army: joining the Welsh Ambulance Service or working in the funeral industry," Ian explained. The satisfaction he gained from assisting people during his military service inspired his next move. When a position was advertised by a local funeral director, he seized the opportunity without hesitation, applying straight away.
Meticulous Care Forged by Discipline
Ian spent five years learning the intricacies of the profession locally before joining Co-op Funeralcare Bridgend in 2012. He firmly believes his former military career was the ideal preparation for the attention to detail and structured compassion required in his role. "It is the perfect fit," he states, highlighting how the discipline and precision of army life translate directly to organising and conducting funerals with the utmost care and respect.
"My job satisfaction comes from helping families, usually at their lowest point, and providing something memorable and meaningful during a difficult time," Ian said. No two days are ever the same, balancing meticulous organisation with genuine empathy, whether he is meeting bereaved families or conducting services.
Community Commitment and Open Conversations
Ian's dedication to service extends far beyond his professional life. He has a long-standing involvement in local football, having served as treasurer, secretary, and general organiser for Caerau Football Club, demonstrating a deep-rooted commitment to his community.
He is also a passionate advocate for normalising discussions about death and bereavement. "Death is part of life, and younger people should feel able to talk about it openly," Ian emphasises. For anyone considering a career in funeralcare, he stresses the paramount importance of authentic people skills. "Be yourself and come with no airs or graces. Families appreciate authenticity and empathy more than anything."
Ian Rees's journey from the battlefields of the Balkans to the quiet dignity of funeral homes in Bridgend showcases a unique and powerful form of continued service, proving that compassion and structure can create a profound support system for those in need.
